Let's get you that marriage you've always dreamed of (and absolutely need as a parent)!
This is for parents who want to have a strong, supportive marriage that feels really good and makes parenting (and life) easier!
If you’re ready to get at the root of what isn’t working in your marriage and intervene in order to have the marriage you want, without a lot of energy and effort you don’t have, I’d love to invite you to schedule a FREE Married After Kids Intervention Call.
Your spouse does not need to be present.
- Are you looking for support, guidance, and actual solutions to get a stronger marriage?
- Do you want to feel fully supported and appreciated as the default parent?
- Are you ready to feel more empowered and confident about how to have the marriage you want?
- Do you want parenting to feel easier because you know you are on a solid team and will get the support you need from your spouse?
- Are you wanting to shift your mindset from one of resentment and frustration to one of love and excitement?
Personalized 1:1 Marriage Coaching
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I talk to parents everyday that feel like having children has impacted their marriages in ways they didn’t expect.
I’ve experienced this myself.
Feeling like I was losing my connection with my spouse because all my energy and focus was channelled into caring for the kids.
Feeling like we weren’t on the same page and feeling frustrated that I didn’t know how to get back there.
And not to mention how lonely it can feel.
I felt like I was sacrificing everything…my time, my body, my energy, my sleep, my goals/dreams…and I wasn’t being recognized or acknowledged by my spouse for any of it (and worse - his life barely seemed to change).
Research shows that marital satisfaction almost always declines significantly after having kids. Children change your dynamic. They also change who you are as an individual, including what you need and what feels good. This relationship decline doesn’t improve without intervention.
Children, as wonderful and magical as they are, have a way of putting a spotlight on the biggest challenges in your marriage, which can increase the possibility of divorce
…and I don’t want that for you.
If you are ready to reconnect to the love and excitement you felt at the beginning of your marriage, then you are in the right place.
Take the first step towards having a stronger marriage. Schedule a free call below to explore how coaching can help you reconnect with your spouse, decrease arguments, and get you back together as a solid team
During this complimentary intervention call, we'll have the chance to get to know each other better and I can talk about the exact steps that would be helpful in creating the marriage YOU want with the support that feels best for you.
If you feel like you’ve tried all the things to make things better. You have had the same arguments over and over and nothing has changed. You have asked for what you needed from your spouse only to be disappointed, and you feel stuck about how things will ever improve, I hope you’ll take me up on this free call to see if coaching is the thing you’ve been needing to improve your marriage.
I can't wait to learn more about you and your marriage and chat about how I can support you in creating the marriage YOU want
Click to schedule your free married after kids intervention call
What if...
YOU HAD SOMEONE TAKING CARE OF YOU
Imagine that you had a spouse that was a rock solid support system and was giving back to you as much as you are giving to your kids. That was supporting you to learn what you need and what makes you happy and loved.
YOU COULD MAKE PARENTING EASIER
As a default parent, you are constantly doing and caring for all the things. Imagine being a solid team that consistently supports each other to manage the mental and physical load that comes with being a parent. I can give you the tools to help you get there.
YOUR SPOUSE MADE THE CHANGES YOU WANT TO SEE
So often clients will come to me because they want to see something different from their spouse and they are frustrated because it hasn’t happened no matter how many times they have asked for it. I help you eliminate the barriers that are getting in the way of you getting what you want in your marriage.
Learn how to have disagreements in a really respectful way that actually bring positive changes to your marriage
Marriage coaching can help you achieve all of these things and more!
Find how best to communicate with your spouse without defensiveness and challenges
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With coaching You'll...
Learn how to connect how that you have kids, including what you both need and how make it all work
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Together, I’ll help you create a plan that works for you and your unique marriage, and you’ll have me in your corner to help you troubleshoot things and navigate around the issues so you no longer have to figure out how to have a good marriage alone.
Ready to have the marriage YOU want that helps make life and parenting so much easier?
Click the link below to schedule your free Married After Kids Intervention Call and let’s explore how you can have the marriage you want NOW!
Have personalized support you need to navigate the ups and downs of marriage with more peace, ease, and FUN!
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"I found you at our marriage’s lowest point. I truly did not think we could survive it at all. We are stronger than we have ever been and I never knew we could have this much fun together after going through something so dark. Thank you."
"I just wanted to say thank you to Lindsay for all she’s done for me. I am now doing well. We are happy and I’m managing healthy boundaries. It’s been really good lately."
"After a few failed attempts at marriage counseling and “just get over it”, I found Lindsay. She offered a refreshing (and sometimes challenging perspective) into a world she could absolutely relate to. She understood and met me where I was without judgment! Lindsay led me down a path of self-worth, a loving relationship, and pride in my family. I’m so grateful for her."
Here’s what past clients have said about working together
Coaching can provide you with the personalized support and guidance you need to feel more connected and part of a solid team with your spouse. With coaching, you’ll have a professional who understands what you are going through and can help you navigate the challenges in a way that works best for you and your marriage. It can help you change patterns so you actually feel differently in your marriage
If you’re tired of feeling alone and overwhelmed on your parenting journey…
If you’re struggling with the emotional roller coaster of parenthood…
Coaching can help you shift your mindset and find the best way to get support. You’ll learn practical tools and strategies to reduce stress, cultivate love and appreciation, and manage the mental load that comes with parenting. feel differently in your marriage
If you’re feeling stuck in your marriage and feeling more like roommates than lovers…
I know you have a lot on your plate and caring for your marriage seems like one more thing, but coaching can help you find ways to get your marriage where you want it NOW, not when the kids leave the house
If you’re scared that you no longer connect with your spouse in a meaningful way…
You chose each other to do life with. Parenting greatly changes who you are as individuals so finding your connection on the other side of these changes is important and necessary
Ready to ACTUALLY have the marriage you want now instead of waiting to see if it will get better on its own?
Click the button to schedule a free Married After Kids Intervention Call to learn more about what interventions will be best for your marriage
What if you could feel fully loved and supported by your spouse again?
I remember it vividly…
My youngest daughter was 2 months old and my oldest was 4. My spouse was getting ready to deploy and we had spent the last two weeks fighting non-stop. I felt more alone than I had ever felt in my life, and he hadn’t even left yet.
I decided that I am unavailable to be unhappy in my marriage.
I am unavailable to feel alone in my marriage.
From working as a psychologist and marriage coach for many years, I knew what I needed to do, but struggled to put it into practice.
I didn’t have the time and I didn’t have the mental energy (being a default parent is A LOT).
I started developing different tools and coping mechanisms that worked for me and for us with the limited time and energy we had.
And with this practice and consistency, I started shifting from resentment and frustration, to having more love in my marriage than I ever thought possible.
We figured out what worked and leaned in hard. We now know how to show up for each other and our marriage is better than when we were first dating, while we are raising our girls together.
That’s what led me here with you.
I know the challenges children put on your marriage (I have lived them).
I know how important it is to have a healthy and happy marriage to get through all of life’s challenges.
I know how to bring the change you want in your marriage without requiring extra time and energy that you don’t have.
My clients have described our time together as not only a game changer for their marriage but their lives as well.
They reported having more good days than bad ones, finding ways to care for themselves even while caring for their kids, they felt that they had more space for the things that mattered most to them, and felt that a weight had been lifted off their shoulders.
Parenthood can be beautiful and wonderful, and hard and draining, but you don’t have to lose your marriage in the process.
Through coaching, I have helped many parents like you find renewed hope and deep, satisfying joy, even with everything on their plate.
I would be honored to support you on your journey to having the marriage you truly desire.
Schedule a free Married After Kids Intervention call today to learn more about how you can intervene to have the marriage you want.
Here’s the thing…
I’ve seen firsthand the transformations that are possible when you have the right support for your marriage. My clients have learned to reconnect and communicate more effectively, and love harder and support each other in ways that feel really good. And I want you to experience that kind of transformation.
Whether your kids are young or grown, I’ll work with you to figure out what is getting in the way of getting what you want from your marriage and get you back to each other in a way you didn’t think was possible.
I offer 12 weeks of 1:1 coaching designed to give you the personalized tools, intervention, and support to have the marriage you want, even while caring for your kids. I have found that 12 weeks is the perfect amount of time to make the necessary changes in your marriage and ensure they are solidified as healthy habits for the lifetime of your relationship.
Introducing 1:1 Marriage Coaching
While the process is 12-weeks, it is customizable to meet your specific needs and timeline.
Who 1:1 Marriage Coaching is for:
It is designed for the parent who is struggling in their marriage or isn’t feeling supported by their partner. Whether you are contemplating divorce, wanting help with a specific issue, or want to strengthen your bond, this type of coaching can help.
What’s included in the coaching:
- 90 days of unlimited messaging support via Voxer.
This has been an absolute game changer for me in the results I can help my clients achieve. When it comes to marriage, you aren’t just dealing with your own patterns and habits and triggers, you are dealing with someone else’s as well. As a result, even the best laid plans won’t work and I want you to have the ability to troubleshoot and change tactics at every opportunity. This means you aren’t doing any of this alone at any time.
- Simple homework assignments tailored to you to give you those major breakthroughs and transforms your marriage into its best version NOW
- The opportunity to feel what you want in your marriage (priceless)
As a result of our time together, you will establish the skills you need to create the marriage you want and learn how to navigate each challenge that comes your way. You won’t just see positive change in the three months, but for a lifetime because you now know what works.
Ready to see if this support is right for you? Click the link below to schedule a free Married After Kids Intervention Call. I LOVE these calls and absolutely love helping you see how you can have the marriage you want.
The Investment:
Frequently asked questions
Three monthly payments of $599.
(I also have a package with one call per month for $799 and two calls per month for $999). This is perfect for you if you still prefer to connect “live” over zoom and have that extra level of support and accountability.
I know it can be hard to invest in yourself and your marriage. It isn’t something that is supported or encouraged by anyone in your life. But I also know that this work is LIFE CHANGING and I would love to chat about how it could work for you. Even if you don’t know if you are ready for the investment, I highly recommend you schedule a free call to see if it would be a good fit, and if it is, we can always talk about ways to customize my package to fit your needs.
Ready to change the trajectory of your marriage and your life!
I am often asked questions about marriage coaching so I have put together a list of the most common.
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If you have made it this far and you still haven't scheduled a free intervention call, this is your permission to stop scrolling, click below (even if there's part of you that doesn't feel ready) and take the next step to explore working together, which we both know would help you feel so much better in your marriage. Click the button below to schedule your free Married After Kids Intervention call and we will talk more about what interventions will be best for YOUR marriage.
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